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		<title>Vital Connections: Financial Friends We All Need – Part 7</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Sep 2010 17:12:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[For the past two weeks, I&#8217;ve shared the importance of reaching out to expand your network of trusted advisors.  Included in the mix are: 1) A Personal Banker or Branch Manager;  2) Mortgage Broker, 3) A Fee-Based Financial Planner; 4) An Insurance Agent, 5) A Certified Public Accountant (CPA); and 6) A &#8220;Proven&#8221; Real Estate [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="dropcap-first">For the past two weeks, I&#8217;ve shared the importance of reaching out to expand your network of trusted advisors.  Included in the mix are: <strong>1) </strong><strong><a href="http://clarencestowers.com/2010/08/24/vital-connections-financial-friends-we-all-need-part-1/" target="_blank">A Personal Banker or Branch Manager</a></strong><strong>;  2) </strong><strong><a href="http://clarencestowers.com/2010/08/25/vital-connections-financial-friends-we-all-need-part-2/" target="_blank">Mortgage Broker</a></strong><strong>, 3) A </strong><strong><a href="http://clarencestowers.com/2010/08/26/vital-connections-financial-friends-we-all-need-part-3/" target="_blank">Fee-Based Financial Planner</a></strong><strong>; 4) </strong><strong><a href="http://clarencestowers.com/2010/08/27/vital-connections-financial-friends-we-all-need-part-4/" target="_blank">An Insurance Agent</a>, 5) <a href="http://clarencestowers.com/2010/08/31/vital-connections-financial-friends-we-all-need-–-part-5/" target="_blank">A Certified Public Accountant (CPA)</a>; and 6) <a href="http://clarencestowers.com/2010/09/02/vital-connections-financial-friends-we-all-need-–-part-6/" target="_blank">A &#8220;Proven&#8221; Real Estate Agent</a>. </strong></p>
<p>In my opinion you should have them on speed dial if you desire to build wealth and leave a lasting legacy.  Your aim should be to develop a team that understands your financial goals and advise with a human touch.  Today, I’d like you to consider adding a seventh and final financial friend:</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>An Estate Planning Attorney</strong></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://clarencestowers.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/09/estate-planning-attorney.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-749" title="estate-planning-attorney" src="http://clarencestowers.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/09/estate-planning-attorney-300x199.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="199" /></a></p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><strong>I Don&#8217;t Have Enough Money&#8230;</strong></p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Wrong!  People often think of estate planning, wills, and trusts as tools and services for the wealthy.  Not so!  Why?  The laws governing wills and trusts affect the wealthy, middle-class, and the working class.  Additionally, there&#8217;s a lot of confusion surrounding wills and trusts.  People, they are not synonymous.  &#8221;A will controls your assets in your individual name when you die, but a trust is used to hold your assets during your lifetime,&#8221; according to Vicki Lee Parker, writer for Black Enterprise Magazine.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">As a pastor of a thriving church, I can&#8217;t tell you how many family fights I had to mediate because no one took the time to consult an estate planning attorney.  Today, many siblings and relatives do not speak because no one took time to plan accordingly.  Since each state has different laws regarding inheritance, your estate shouldn&#8217;t be left to the state or do-it-yourself wills.  &#8221;An estate planning attorney can help you set up a trust that offers more flexibility and control over how your assets are managed after you die,&#8221; says Steve Hartnett, an estate planning attorney in San Diego and associate director of education at the American Academy of Estate Planing.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><strong>I Confess&#8230;</strong></p>
<p style="text-align: left;">As I conclude this series, I want inform you that I practice what I preach.  I have six of the seven financial friends on speed dial and I&#8217;m currently interviewing estate planning attorneys.  I plan to make my decison by the end of September and will keep you posted.  Thanks for reading and reflecting on my blog posts and my prayers are with you as you assemble your team!</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>Did I miss anyone?  Who do you have on your team that I missed?</strong></p>
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		<title>Vital Connections: Financial Friends We All Need – Part 6</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Sep 2010 17:14:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[When it comes to getting ahead financially, it pays to have a trusted circle of advisers to lean on.  For the past two weeks, I&#8217;ve shared the necessity of expanding your network of friends to include a few financial friends.  These friends will help guide you to reach your financial goals.  You can think of [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="dropcap-first">When it comes to getting ahead financially, it pays to have a trusted circle of advisers to lean on.  For the past two weeks, I&#8217;ve shared the necessity of expanding your network of friends to include a few financial friends.  These friends will help guide you to reach your financial goals.  You can think of these friends as your personal board of directors or your dream team.  Today, I&#8217;d like to suggest a sixth financial friend:</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>A &#8220;Proven&#8221; Real Estate Agent</strong></p>
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<p style="text-align: left;"><a href="http://clarencestowers.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/09/Real-Estate-Agent.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-745" title="Real Estate Agent" src="http://clarencestowers.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/09/Real-Estate-Agent-300x199.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="199" /></a></p>
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<p style="text-align: left;">The recent economic downturn forced many agents out of business looking to make a quick buck.  If you intend to build wealth and leave a legacy, gone are the days when you can call your novice cousin, uncle, or high school friend to help your purchase or sale property.  Times have changed and with so much uncertainty in the real estate market, it&#8217;s important to have a proven agent in your network who has the expertise to help you achieve your property ownership goals.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><strong>Who Should I Call?</strong></p>
<p>&#8220;Take some time to find an agent who knows the market you are interested in and has experience in the specific type of deals you want to make,&#8221; says Vicki Lee Parker, writer for Black Enterprise Magazine.  Before  deciding which agents to interview, do your homework!  The top agent in  your city may not be the best choice for marketing your particular home.   Your choice should depend on which agent is most successful in  attracting buyers to homes similar to yours in price and amenities.  Some agents specialize in luxury homes, some in downtown condos, and some in a particular subdivision or price point.  To  optimize your selling success, choose an agent who is successful in  selling homes similar to yours.  Check out <a href="http://www.suite101.com/content/choosing-the-right-real-estate-listing-agent-a92508" target="_blank"><strong>these questions</strong></a> before you list your home.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>Do you have a &#8220;proven&#8221; real estate agent on speed dial?<br />
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		<title>Vital Connections: Financial Friends We All Need – Part 5</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 31 Aug 2010 14:36:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Last week I encouraged you to considered adding the following financial friends to your network: 1) A Personal Banker or Branch Manager;  2) Mortgage Broker, 3) A Fee-Based Financial Planner; and 4) An Insurance Agent.  These are the financial friends you should have on speed dial if you desire to build wealth and leave a [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="dropcap-first">Last week I encouraged you to considered adding the following financial friends to your network: 1) <strong><a href="http://clarencestowers.com/2010/08/24/vital-connections-financial-friends-we-all-need-part-1/" target="_blank">A Personal Banker or Branch Manager</a></strong>;  2) <strong><a href="http://clarencestowers.com/2010/08/25/vital-connections-financial-friends-we-all-need-part-2/" target="_blank">Mortgage Broker</a></strong>, 3) A <strong><a href="http://clarencestowers.com/2010/08/26/vital-connections-financial-friends-we-all-need-part-3/" target="_blank">Fee-Based Financial Planner</a></strong>; and 4) <strong><a href="http://clarencestowers.com/2010/08/27/vital-connections-financial-friends-we-all-need-part-4/" target="_blank">An Insurance Agent</a></strong>.  These are the financial friends you should have on speed dial if you desire to build wealth and leave a lasting legacy.  Your aim should be to develop a team that understands your financial goals and advise with a human touch.  Today, I&#8217;d like you to consider adding a fifth financial friend:</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>A Certified Public Accountant (CPA)</strong></p>
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<p style="text-align: center;"><strong><a href="http://clarencestowers.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/CPA.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-740" title="CPA" src="http://clarencestowers.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/CPA-274x300.jpg" alt="" width="274" height="300" /></a><br />
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<p><strong>&#8220;What&#8217;s a CPA&#8221;</strong></p>
<p>It has been said that &#8220;the only thing certain in life are death and taxes.&#8221;  As your wealth increases, you will require the services of CPA.  There are many rules and regulations regarding individual taxes and if you don&#8217;t have a skilled CPA, you will find yourself in a lot of trouble.  A good CPA will inform you of the best tax position and legal protection you&#8217;ll need to protect you from potential liabilities.  The tax codes are complex and change yearly.  Therefore, it&#8217;s practically impossible for the average person to keep pace with the most recent updates.</p>
<p><strong>&#8220;I Do My Own Taxes&#8221;</strong></p>
<p>While preparing your own tax returns my save you money, but, is it wise?  While most computer tax software programs ask questions in order to identify your best tax strategy, they are not helpful when you&#8217;re presented questions you don&#8217;t understand.  A CPA who knows your income history can help you understand what taxes you&#8217;re paying and why.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>How are you doing assembling your team?</strong></p>
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		<title>Vital Connections: Financial Friends We All Need &#8211; Part 4</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Aug 2010 18:10:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Yesterday, I encouraged you to embrace the fact that YOU are the CEO of YOU, INC., and when it comes to your financial future, YOU ARE ON YOUR OWN.  The goal of this series is to encourage you to expand your network of friends, and consider adding people with financial saavy to help you build [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="dropcap-first">Yesterday, I encouraged you to embrace the fact that <strong><a href="http://www.blackenterprise.com/blogs/2010/07/13/a-lesson-from-lebron-in-emotional-intelligence/" target="_blank">YOU are the CEO of YOU, INC</a>., </strong>and when it comes to your financial future, <strong>YOU ARE ON YOUR OWN</strong>.  The goal of this series is to encourage you to expand your network of friends, and consider adding people with financial saavy to help you build wealth for your family.  Today, I&#8217;m encouraging you to consider adding a fourth financial friend:</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>AN INSURANCE AGENT</strong></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong><a href="http://clarencestowers.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/insurance-agents.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-737" title="insurance-agents" src="http://clarencestowers.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/insurance-agents.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="300" /></a></strong></p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><strong>We All Must Leave Here</strong></p>
<p>Insurance is a touchy subject that requires a soothing presence to ease the tension.  After all, insurance is all about planning for the unforeseeable.  There’s no getting around the fact, for instance, that your family needs to be provided for in case of your death. Finding an insurance agent with whom you can talk candidly is vital.</p>
<p><strong>Who should I call?</strong></p>
<p><strong></strong>According to <strong><a href="www.blackenterprise.com" target="_blank">Black Enterprise Magazine</a></strong>, &#8220;any agent can generalize what the average person should do, but you need an agent who understands your family history, someone you know will understand how your situation changes if you get a new job or face a sudden illness in your family.”  According to most industry experts, &#8220;at least once a year you should meet with your agent and review all your basic insurance policies such as car, home, and life insurance.  You should also ask about coverage for disability, retirement, and long-term care options that can be tailored to your needs.&#8221;  Having an agent who knows you by name is especially helpful when you have to file a claim after a car accident or major disaster such as a house fire.</p>
<p><strong>Get References</strong></p>
<p>In general, there are two types of <a href="http://www.ehow.com/how_1755_find-insurance-agent.html#" target="_blank">insurance agents</a> &#8211; independent agents who write for more than one company and contract agents who represent a single company.  I asked my financial planner &#8220;what type of insurance should people consider?&#8221;  His reply: Life Insurance, Auto Insurance, Health Insurance, Disability Insurance, Home Owners Insurance, Renter&#8217;s Insurance, and Flood Insurance (if you live in a flood zone).  If you&#8217;re the type of person who prefers sequential steps to get started, you can begin your search by <strong><a href="http://www.ehow.com/how_1755_find-insurance-agent.html" target="_blank">reading this article</a></strong>.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>Remember, YOU ARE THE CEO OF YOU, INC.</strong></p>
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		<title>Vital Connections: Financial Friends We All Need &#8211; Part 3</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Aug 2010 17:12:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[When it comes to your financial future, here’s the deal: You’re on your own. Pensions are going the way of the parachute pants (remember the 80&#8242;s).  Social Security is looking more shaky by the day.  Our healthcare system is being held together by duct tape.  In today’s environment, you must be a realist and admit [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="dropcap-first">When it comes to your financial future, here’s the deal: You’re on your  own. Pensions are going the way of the parachute pants (<em>remember the  80&#8242;s</em>).  Social Security is looking more shaky by the day.  Our  healthcare system is being held together by duct tape.  In today’s  environment, you must be a realist and admit that you’re going to have  to take control and create your family’s financial security (<em>with the  help of a </em><strong><a href="http://clarencestowers.com/2010/08/24/vital-connections-financial-friends-we-all-need-part-1/" target="_blank"><em>few financial friends</em></a></strong>).  You can read about the the first two financial friends <a href="http://clarencestowers.com/2010/08/25/vital-connections-financial-friends-we-all-need-part-2/" target="_blank"><strong>here</strong></a> and <strong><a href="http://clarencestowers.com/2010/08/24/vital-connections-financial-friends-we-all-need-part-1/" target="_blank">here</a></strong>.</p>
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<p>Over the past two days we have explored a few essential financial friends we all will need at some point in our lives.  If you desire to build wealth, today I&#8217;m encouraging you to consider adding a third financial friend:</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>A FEE BASED FINANCIAL PLANNER</strong></p>
<p>Making financial decisions is difficult.  Make the wrong decision could prove disastrous and may set you back a few years.  There&#8217;s a lot you can figure out on your own, but all of us can use help when it comes to something as important as how to save, invest, and plan for the future.</p>
<p><strong>Get References</strong></p>
<p>A reference from a friend or family member is a great way to search for a financial planner. But make sure you&#8217;ve got similar needs as the person who&#8217;s giving the referral. Go to groups like the <a href="http://www.cfp.net/" target="new">Certified Financial Planner Board of Standards</a> and the <a href="http://www.fpanet.org/" target="new">Financial Planning Association</a> for additional references.</p>
<p><strong>Understand how your planner is getting paid</strong></p>
<p>The three most common set-ups are: Fee-only, fee-based, and commission-based. Fee-only planners don&#8217;t get commissions for the products they sell &#8211; fees are for the advice they give (<em>my personal preference</em>).  Fee-based planners may receive commission on some products they sell, but most of their money comes from a fee you pay them.  Commission-based planners are paid by the companies whose products they sell.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>Remember, you are the CEO of YOU! </strong></p>
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		<title>Vital Connections: Financial Friends We All Need &#8211; Part 2</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Aug 2010 16:43:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#8220;When Black Enterprise unveiled its Declaration of Financial Empowerment nearly a decade ago, the idea was to create a program to help African Americans build wealth.&#8221;  The principles are solid and transcend race, gender, and ethnicity.  If you desire to build wealth, today I&#8217;m encouraging you to consider adding a second financial friend:  A TRUSTED [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="dropcap-first">&#8220;When Black Enterprise unveiled its <a href="http://www.blackenterprise.com/personal-finance/2010/08/20/black-enterprise-wealth-for-life-principles/" target="_blank"><strong>Declaration of Financial Empowerment</strong></a> nearly a decade ago, the idea was to create a program to help African  Americans build wealth.&#8221;  The principles are solid and transcend race, gender, and ethnicity.  If you desire to build wealth, today I&#8217;m encouraging you to consider adding a second financial friend:  <strong> </strong></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>A TRUSTED MORTGAGE BROKER</strong></p>
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<p><strong>What exactly is a mortgage broker?</strong></p>
<p>Simply put, a broker is a middleman who helps you find a good deal on a mortgage loan.  A mortgage broker does not work for a particular bank or lending institution but rather shops around to find the best terms.</p>
<p><strong>Should you be using a mortgage broker?</strong></p>
<p>Well, a broker can be helpful in certain situations, especially if you have a poor credit history and are having a difficult time finding a lender.  A knowledgeable and experienced mortgage broker can find lenders who are willing to do business with you and can even help make your case when your financial history is, shall we say, less than perfect.</p>
<p>In exchange for doing the mortgage shopping on your behalf (and for assisting you in understanding the various terms and paperwork involved in the mortgage), a broker will get a commission. Typically, this commission will range between 0.5% to about 2% of the loan amount that you decide to borrow.</p>
<p>Finding and picking a trusted mortgage broker is no easy task.  Solicit references from friends, family members, and your networks.  Additionally, you can Google &#8220;<a href="http://www.refinancingright.com/best_mortgage_broker.htm" target="_blank"><strong>how to find a mortgage broker</strong></a>&#8221; and sort through the links.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><em><strong>So, how are you doing?  Do you have a trusted mortgage broker on speed dial?</strong></em></p>
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		<title>Vital Connections: Financial Friends We All Need &#8211; Part 1</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Aug 2010 17:40:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[There is no such thing as a perfect friend.  They are all human and everyone is alike in some sort of way.  Be like me.  Don&#8217;t limit yourself to one set of friends.  Be friends with everyone. According to Black Enterprise Magazine, &#8220;there are seven financial friends everyone should have on speed dial.  Economists &#38; [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="dropcap-first">There is no such thing as a perfect friend.  They are all human and  everyone is alike in some sort of way.  Be like me.  Don&#8217;t limit yourself  to one set of friends.  Be friends with everyone.</p>
<p><a href="http://clarencestowers.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/connections.gif"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-724" title="connections" src="http://clarencestowers.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/connections-300x207.gif" alt="" width="300" height="207" /></a></p>
<p>According to <a href="http://www.blackenterprise.com/magazine/" target="_blank"><strong>Black Enterprise Magazine</strong></a>, &#8220;there are seven financial friends everyone should have on speed dial.  Economists &amp; academics believe that at least part of the wealth disparity between African Americans and White Americans in the United States can be attributed to the persistent distrust of financial institutions among a larger number of African Americans.&#8221;</p>
<p>The first financial friend we all need is a <strong>PERSONAL BANKER OR BRANCH MANAGER</strong></p>
<p>Many borrowers spent most of the time focusing on their credit  application and forget to build additional resources to help them  qualify.  What does it mean to develop a meaningful relationship with your  personal banker/branch manager?  It means to attempt to develop a deeper level of  rapport with the person on the other side of the desk.  If you can  befriend your banker it means it will have an emotional investment in  helping you and your application.</p>
<p>This does not mean that they will violate lending policies or commit  fraudulent acts, but if the deal needs a little massaging to make it  work they will commit resources to get it done.  You can establish a better relationship with your personal banker is  simply through respecting their time and treating them with some common  courtesy.  You can also go the extra mile by calling them on their  birthday, asking them if they want coffee at your next appointment  together or contacting their branch manager when they&#8217;ve done a good job  and singing their praise.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><em><strong>Have you established an authentic relationship with your personal banker or branch manager?</strong></em></p>
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		<title>Christmas in August?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Aug 2010 16:09:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[It is no secret to those who know me that I am a HUGE fan of technology &#8211; especially Bible software.  It is also no secret that Logos has completely changed my mind on the necessity of Bible software as an aid in studying Scripture.  Additionally, I am super excited to announce that Logos has [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="dropcap-first">It is no secret to those who know me that I am a HUGE fan of technology &#8211; especially Bible software.  It is also no secret that <a href="http://logos.com" target="_blank">Logos</a> has completely changed my mind on the necessity of Bible software as an aid in studying Scripture.  Additionally, I am super  excited to announce that Logos has launched their Logos 4 for Mac ship day givaway!</p>
<p><a href="http://www.logos.com/mac"><img style="float: right; padding: 0 0 0 5px;" src="http://www.logos.com/images/mac/blog-post.jpg" alt="" /></a><a href="http://www.logos.com/">Logos Bible Software</a> is giving away <a href="http://www.logos.com/mac#giveaway">thousands of dollars of prizes</a> to celebrate the launch of <a href="http://www.logos.com/mac">Logos Bible Software 4 Mac</a> on October 1. Prizes include an iMac, a MacBook Pro, an iPad, an iPod Touch, and more than 100 other prizes!</p>
<p>They’re also having a special limited-time sale on their Mac and PC <a href="http://www.logos.com/basepackages">base packages</a> and <a href="http://www.logos.com/upgrade">upgrades</a>. Check it out!</p>
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<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>Pssst&#8230;I&#8217;m asking God to intervene so I can win the iMac for my office <img src='http://clarencestowers.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':-D' class='wp-smiley' /> </strong></p>
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		<title>The Church of Facebook</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Aug 2010 18:09:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[My generation experienced the election of the first African-American President, the 9/11 Terrorist Attacks, Desert Storm, Iraq War, historic government bailouts, the passing of healthcare reform, and the greatest economic downturn since The Great Depression.  However, in my opinion, the greatest shifts we will experience in our lifetime are happening now! According to next generation [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="dropcap-first">My generation experienced the election of the first African-American President, the 9/11 Terrorist Attacks, Desert Storm, Iraq War, historic government bailouts, the passing of healthcare reform, and the greatest economic downturn since The Great Depression.  However, in my opinion, the greatest shifts we will experience in our lifetime are happening now!</p>
<p><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Facebook-Effect-Inside-Company-Connecting/dp/1439102112/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1282241489&amp;sr=8-1" target="_blank"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-713" title="Facebook Effect" src="http://clarencestowers.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/Facebook-Effect-228x300.jpg" alt="" width="228" height="300" /></a></p>
<h2 style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-weight: normal; font-size: 13px;">According to next generation thought leader <a href="http://www.blakemallen.com/about-blake/" target="_blank">Blake Mallen</a>, &#8220;most new online technologies have one root intention: to make it simpler for people to communicate and collaborate.&#8221;  Of all the tools and websites created to connect people, Facebook seems to be the most popular starting place for many.  With more than 500 million users (</span><span style="font-size: 13px;">that&#8217;s right &#8211; 500 MILLION AND GROWING</span><span style="font-weight: normal; font-size: 13px;">), we all have at our fingertips the tools to find, friend, and engage with people.  Imaging how churches can use this platform to expand the Kingdom of God! </span></h2>
<p style="text-align: left;">Consider this:</p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><strong>To reach 50 million users, it took:</strong></p>
<ol>
<li><strong>Radio &#8211; 38 years</strong></li>
<li><strong>TV &#8211; 13 years</strong></li>
<li><strong>Internet &#8211; 4 years</strong></li>
<li><strong>iPod &#8211; 3 years</strong></li>
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<h2 style="text-align: center;">FACEBOOK ADDED 100 MILLION USERS IN LESS THAN 9 MONTHS</h2>
<p style="text-align: center;"><em>Source: United Nations Cyber School Bus Document/Mashable</em></p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Additionally, according to a Grunwald Associates National Study, &#8220;at the end of 2010 Generation Y will outnumber baby boomers&#8230;96% of them have joined a social network.&#8221;</p>
<h2 style="text-align: center;">QUESTIONS</h2>
<p style="text-align: left;"><strong><em>Considering this social trend, how will the church respond and leverage social media to help expand the Kingdom of God? </em></strong></p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><strong><em>How will business owners leverage social media to market their goods and services?</em></strong></p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><strong><em>How are you leveraging social media?</em></strong></p>
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		<title>Sunday Night Reflections&#8230;</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Aug 2010 04:12:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Today we talked about the real &#8220;Clean Up Woman&#8221; from Proverbs 31:10-31.  I shared with our congregation how God&#8217;s version of the Clean Up Women is a woman who&#8217;s Clever and has Character, Confidence, and Compassion. I encouraged our women to pursue God&#8217;s best version of themselves by becoming a P-31 woman! Did I mention [...]]]></description>
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<li>Today we talked about the real &#8220;Clean Up Woman&#8221; from Proverbs 31:10-31.  I shared with our congregation how God&#8217;s version of the Clean Up Women is a woman who&#8217;s Clever and has Character, Confidence, and Compassion.</li>
<li>I encouraged our women to pursue God&#8217;s best version of themselves by becoming a P-31 woman!</li>
<li>Did I mention how much I enjoy preaching this series?</li>
<li>During the month of August, I&#8217;m praying with our men in between services.  We&#8217;ve experience a mighty move from God as men are becoming seekers of God&#8217;s Kingdom.</li>
<li>Worship was INCREDIBLE.  The WIN for our Worship &amp; Fine Arts Ministry Team is to create an awe inspiring worship experience where God&#8217;s presence is FELT!  They did just that &#8211; In fact, they knocked it out of the park!</li>
<li>I absolutely lost it when I saw a member who&#8217;s battling cancer return to the choir!  God is truly amazing!</li>
<li>We experience a miracle today &#8211; 10 ADULTS gave their lives to Christ…HALF WERE MEN!!!</li>
<li>We’re not trying to raise an audience at Mars Hill…we want an army who believes that God can still do the “impossible,”…and we live out Isaiah 62:6-7 by begging Him for it!</li>
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<p>I literally could go on and on about what we learned today.  Mars Hill…I LOVE MY CHURCH…you are an AWESOME group of people and the best is yet to come!</p>
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