8.  WAITING UNTIL THERE IS A PROBLEM TO PROVIDE FEEDBACK. Encouragement_3As a pastor, I understand the importance of encouraging others.  It empowers others to reach their fullest potential. 
Furthermore, it motivates them to want to go the extra mile.  Because I can fall victim to the tyranny of the urgent, sometimes I’m encouragement-challenged.  Moreover, since I am results oriented, my tendency is to only speak up when expectations aren’t met.  Experience has taught me that this can create a culture of fear. I need to discipline myself to encourage my staff, leaders, and members more.  As Tom Peters has said, "Reward excellent failures. Punish mediocre successes."