by Clarence E. Stowers | Nov 28, 2011 | regular
I’m excited about sharing my thoughts on servant-leadership. What’s great about this blog is that no matter where you are in the world, all you need to do is log, point your browser to the Urban Pastor Live, and elevate your leadership skills. Last week we learned how being a servant is the best kept leadership secret. If you missed it, you can read Part 1, Part 2, and Part 3 now.
The Power of Being a Servant-Leader
The term servant-leader probably conjures up images of someone who is always walking behind others, picking up after them and simply playing a supporting role. But just because you support and serve those you lead, doesn’t mean you are a doormat or any less of leader. It is probably the idea that a leader should have an elevated rather than serving position that hinders us from really understanding what being a servant-leader is about.
Think about epic stories like Braveheart. In the movie you see Mel Gibson as the lead character who is spurring his followers on to fight for freedom. But he doesn’t sit back and direct the battle from a distant hill. He is there in the front lines with his men, serving them in battle, fighting alongside them and yet still leading them. This is a powerful image of a servant-leader. Because of his servant heart, his men stood toe-toe with him until the very end.
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Join me tomorrow as I discuss King Saul who vividly portrays the consequences of not having a Servant-Leader’s attitude.
by Clarence E. Stowers | Nov 26, 2011 | regular
Happy Saturday!
Last Sunday, November 20, 2011, we held our Family & Friends Day during our 8:00am and 10:30am services. On this day, we rededicated our sanctuary and shared the blessing with family and friends, former members, co-workers, and those who may be searching for a church home.
Last week I asked those who attended to share their thoughts, views, & comments on my Facebook page. The comments & words of encouragement were too powerful & life-changing not to share.
Here’s what they shared:
Pastor Stowers, its said actions speak louder than words… well my 3 cousins tried to tear up our new chairs getting their praise on (LOL), one cousin told me she’s thinking about becoming a member and my two girlfriends were very animate about how they enjoyed the service!!! Bottom line, I’m proud to be a member of MH and blessed that my invitation was so well received. “Teamwork makes the dream work!” Nockamury Coleman
I had a wonderful time. It’s been a while since I had the opportunity to worship with my entire family!!! What a privilege!!!! The Word was both timely and a confirmation. I’m Walking in Plan B! It’s time to be in the perfect will of God! BTW, I love the new sanctuary! It’s beautiful!!! Lady Marcie Stowers
This was a AWESOME DAY @ THE HILL……The message was on point I AM FOLLOWING MY “PLAN B”…..My father was my guest he said that he really enjoyed himself and the WORSHIP was great….Thanks for letting me be apart of THE MARS HILL BAPTIST CHURCH FAMILY….Wanda Hudson
I had a wonderful time…it was so refreshing to see my Mars Hill Baptist Church family. My girls said that it felt like they returned home. They were so excited to see everyone and happy and excited that so many people knew who they were. I haven’t gotten my praise on like that in over a year. Can’t nobody bring it like The Hill….God blessed! Daphne Pickney
All I can say is “Never wanna leave this place!” Margaret is the greatest, she shared with me the programs and writings which are a part of our church history. What a great woman of God and friend! Charles Sands
I thank God for the increase & this day will forever be etched in my heart, mind, & soul.
by Clarence E. Stowers | Nov 25, 2011 | photo
Gratitude consists of being more aware of what you have, than what you don’t. Take time to appreciate what you have rather than sweating what you don’t have.
by Clarence E. Stowers | Nov 24, 2011 | regular
HAPPY THANKSGIVING!
Thanksgiving Day has evolved over the years as an important holiday. It is not just about feasting and shopping. It is about showing one’s gratitude for the blessings that we are showered with.
What is Black Friday you might ask, It’s the day after thanksgiving, the kick off of the holiday shopping season, a day you will find great deals, and lots of people. If you have never done a black Friday before you will need to have a plan in place. You can’t control your job, investments or home value, however, you can control how you spend.
Therefore, before you hit the stores (you may already be out there by the time you read this), ask yourself the following questions:
Do I really need this? There’s a big difference between needs and wants. How to differentiate? Well, if you can’t afford to live without something, if it’s a means to helping you function in society, it’s a need. If you can shrug it off, it’s a want. If you don’t need it, don’t buy it!
Ask: If I buy this will it make my family better, smarter, or more prepared?
Can I even afford it? The old-school rule is true: If you can’t pay cash or pay your credit card off at the end of the month, YOU CAN’T AFFORD IT!
Ask: Can I pay the entire amount in cash?
Do I have an emergency fund established? In life you should expect the unexpected, and this is why you need an emergency fund. Financial emergencies can come in the form of a job loss, significant medical expenses, home or auto repairs or something you’ve never dreamed of. The last thing you want to do is be forced to rely on credit cards or a loan which could simply compound the problem. Most experts agree that you should keep between three and six months worth of your living expenses set aside in your emergency fund (3-6 months living expenses).
Do I have at least $2,500 in my emergency fund?
Am I using God’s tithe to shop? SELF-EXPLANATORY…No need to elaborate on this!
Have you given your 1st 10 percent to God?
Is it really worth the hassle? Thanksgiving means many things to different people but for most people, the holiday of Thanksgiving is synonymous with festive meals, parades, football, family and friends, and, of course, turkey. For many, it’s also about spending time together, catching up and enjoying one another’s company.
Relax & enjoy your family and friends!
by Clarence E. Stowers | Nov 23, 2011 | regular
Today marks the official Thanksgiving holiday season. As we prepare to spend time with our family and friends, don’t forget to tell them how thankful you are for having them in your life.
Earlier this week I defined servant leadership and shared how leaders can lead and serve simultaneously. You can read more about it HERE and HERE. Today we conclude by sharing “The Best Kept Leadership Secret discovering the characteristics of a servant leader.”
Characteristics of a Servant Leader
A servantleader is someone who understands the bigger picture. They know the benefit of putting the group, individual or organizational agenda ahead of their own. A servant–hearted leader understands that their task is to equip and empower those they lead. By helping group members or employees achieve their goals, they know they are enriching the organization as a whole.
A leader who is a servantis secure enough to know that serving others takes nothing away from their leadership position. A servantleader is confident. They do not need a title. They take on the role of a servant willingly out of love. They have a true desire to help others and happily initiate service even when there is no direct benefit to them.
An influential leader ignites an organization’s potential and drives the vision by being servants themselves. You too can be an effective leader by having the heart attitude of a servantas you empower, equip and encourage others.
Question:
Do you possess the characteristics of a servant leader?
Further Reading Inspiration and References:
Scripture verses: Jesus washes the disciple’s feet as a servant – John 13 verses 3-5
- To be great you must be a servant – Mark 10 verses 43-44
- Christ’s attitude of being a servant – Philippians 2 verses 5-7
- God looks for a servant heart – 1 Samuel verse 7
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