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2 Effective Ways to Win Friends & Influence People

2 Effective Ways to Win Friends & Influence People

“When God provides a tool, He expects us to use it for His glory and the redemption of His people,” according to Pastor Brandon Cox.

If Jesus, His Disciples, or The Apostle Paul were here, they’d log on to Facebook and Twitter.  Why?  It’s today’s tool to reach people far from Christ.  Currently, I use Facebook, Twitter, LinkedIn, Instagram, and The Urban Pastor Blog.  Today, I’d like to share why I use Facebook and Twitter.

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3 Ways To Remain Relevant in a Changing World

3 Ways To Remain Relevant in a Changing World

Do you feel bombarded with change from every direction?

Do you feel stressed, overworked, with too little time to appreciate and enjoy life?  Do you find it difficult to keep up with everything you need to do?  If so, you’re not alone. Our rapidly changing world is rapidly stressing us out.  What can you do to cope?

In Future Shock, Alvin Toffler wrote that when people go through times of rapid change, they need what he calls “islands of stability.” Those are things that do not change in your life—sources of security, safe harbors and anchors for the inevitable storms.

“When the speed of change around you or an organization is faster than the speed of change within you or an organization, they becomes irrelevant,” according to Rick Warren.  Staying relevant requires you to take three strategic steps.  Check out Rick’s video and discover the secret to remaining relevant.

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What do you do to stay relevant?

2 Effective Ways to Win Friends & Influence People

Are You a Dealer of Hope?

Heard this somewhere:

Don’t press timid people to be bold – Give them hope and they will be bold.

Boldness follows hope. Hope is facing the future believing you’ll win. Napoleon Bonaparte said, “A leader is a dealer in hope.” Timid people don’t believe they can win. People who believe they can win keep working to win.

10 Ways to Build Hope:

  1. Believe in them more than they believe in themselves.
  2. Do things that matter. Never complete bland tasks; always achieve meaningful vision.
  3. Remember past successes. “Hope is the feeling we have that the feeling we have is not permanent,” Mignon McLaughlin.
  4. Smile.
  5. Pat people on the back.
  6. Celebrate small wins, every day. Small wins create big wins.
  7. Celebrate effort; it keeps people moving forward.
  8. Praise often; correct occasionally.
  9. Focus on strengths more than weaknesses.
  10. Help people rest and renew.
People who give others hope inspire people to be bold.
2 Effective Ways to Win Friends & Influence People

The One Thing You Can Do To Make A Difference

I need your help!

I’m noticing a disturbing trend on my Facebook timeline. It’s filled with negativity, sexually suggested dancing, fistfights, & bizarre/demonic criminal behavior. It appears people are in despair & perhaps have lost hope. Facebook and other social media outlets are the places people gather to mingle and converse. They are today’s wells….the gathering place for people to catch up on what’s happening. If Jesus were here today, he’d log on to Facebook.

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2 Effective Ways to Win Friends & Influence People

Where Do We Go From Here?

While vacationing in the Caribbean in January – February 1967, Dr. ML King, Jr. wrote the 1st draft of his last book “Where Do We Go from Here: Chaos or Community?” King looks back at the civil rights struggle of the 1950s and 1960s.  In his book, Dr. King discusses what African-Americans should do with their new, dearly fought for freedoms found in-laws such as the Voting Rights Act of 1965. He concludes that all Americans black and white must unite to fight poverty and create a new equality of opportunity.

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