Life has a way of dealing us the wrong cards. Many of these cards come with painful circumstances which leave scars. Scars are visible reminders of a painful event in our lives. Steve Arterburn’s book, “Healing Is A Choice” shows us how to deal with our painful past.
In 11 chapters, Arterburn explores 10 choices we need to make if we are to experience the healing that comes from Christ. These Choices are as follows (these are also chapter titles):
The Choice to Connect your life
The Choice to Feel your life
The Choice to Investigate Your Life in Search of Truth
The Choice to Heal Your Future
The Choice to Help Your Life
The Choice to Embrace Your Life
The Choice to Forgive
The Choice to Risk Your Life
The Choice to Serve
The Choice to Preserve
I would recommend it for those who must look at their scars daily. “Healing is a Choice” provides a fresh touch from God. This book shouldn’t replace a pastoral counseling, but could be helpfully useful on your journey towards healing.
FULL DISCLOSURE:
I received a copy of this book from Thomas Nelson via booksneeze.com in exchange for this fair and honest review.
Today, we walk into coffee shops and restaurants & see stickers on the windows offering free wifi. If the aforementioned places can do this, so can the church.
So where am I going with this?
In an effort to promote the church as a great space to work away from the office, Mars Hill cast the vision of offering free WiFi. The vision has come to past. On Sunday, May 13, 2012, We flipped the switch & now Mars Hill Baptist Church of Chicago offers FREE WiFi. Why? Part of our vision is to leverage technology for the glory of God.
Some may ask, “What is the theological reasoning behind Mars Hill’s use of technology to forward the Gospel?”
Paul says in 1 Corinthians 9 that he became all things to all men so that by “all means” he might save as many people as possible. It’s that simple. We use whatever we can to tell as many as we can about Jesus.
Technology is simply a tool or an idol depending upon whether it helps or hinders the forward progress of the gospel. We believe it’s a tool to further the advancement of the Gospel.
What do you think – should churches offer FREE WiFi?
Growing up watching the 3 Stooges provided hours of laughter. Their comedy is timeless and still makes me laugh. The Three Stooges will always be remembered as comedic geniuses and as one of the best comedy dream teams who made our day by slapping the laughter out of us. Honestly, the slaps look real to me 🙂
I chose this video to show that oftentimes we do something similar to guests each Sunday. Sometimes the way we treat our guests is equivalent to a slap in the face. And when that happens, guests forget everything else (awesome praise & worship, children’s ministry, & the message) – even the good that happened before the slap.
A slap in the face to a guest can be a number of things. It can be an insensitive comment from the pulpit, a moment of awkwardness, a harsh word from an usher, or a nasty glance from a member.
Since Easter is our “Spiritual Superbowl” let’s do everything within our power not to spiritually slap our guests. Remember, you never get a second chance to make a good first impression.
Mars Hill, let’s make Easter Weekend memorable and not “spiritually slap” anyone.
As I reflect on Trayvon Martin’s tragic death, I can’t help but view it through the lens of a father, pastor, and drum major for social justice.If you haven’t read the first installment, you can READ IT HERE. Today, we’ll take a look at Trayvon’s death through the lens of a pastor and resident theologian.
Personally, I don’t believe Trayvon was gunned down because he wore a hoodie (Sorry Geraldo Rivera – you’re dead wrong).We live in a broken world where people do evil things.Mr. Zimmerman allowed his prejudices, assumptions, and suspicions to cloud his ability to just walk away.
“Why did God allow Trayvon’s tragic death” is the #1 question people ask when they discover I’m a pastor.In dealing with the problem of evil in the world, we run into many problems like this one.
Could God have prevented Trayvon’s death? Yes, He could have.
God could also have prevented the Middle Passage and the enslavement of Africans, the Spanish Inquisition’s torture of dissidents, and Nero’s reign of terror.In each case, God allowed evil men to exercise a certain amount of power for a short period of time.
Ultimately, we do not know the reasons for what God allows. His ways and thoughts are infinitely higher than ours (Isaiah 55:8-9). His sovereign plan takes in the whole scope of history, past, present, and future, encompassing every possible course of action, every cause and effect, every potentiality, and every contingency.
By faith, we trust that His plan is the best plan possible for restoring fallen humanity and a cursed world to righteousness and blessing.
But we can understand this: God’s permission is not the same as His approval.
God permitted Adam to eat of the forbidden tree, but He did not approve of the action.In the same way, God’s allowing Trayvon’s death in no way suggests His approval of it.God is grieved by the sinfulness of man and the hardness of his heart (Genesis 6:6; Mark 3:5).
We also know that God has done everything possible to redeem us from the sin, which would destroy us. He gave His only Son, who sacrificed His life for our sin and took our penalty. All who turn to Jesus Christ in faith are saved. The sin in this world, and horrors such as Trayvon’s death, are a direct result of mankind’s continued rebellion against God.
The question is not so much “Why did God allow Trayvon’s death?” God gives mankind freedom of choice. We can choose to follow Him and take a stand for righteousness, or we can rebel against Him and pursue evil.
The problem resides in the heart of man. “The heart is deceitful above all things and beyond cure. Who can understand it?” (Jeremiah 17:9). Until man’s heart turns to God, the world will continue to witness “racially motivated” shootings and black-on-black crime.
When I think about Trayvon Martin’s tragic and horrific death, I can’t help but view it through the lens of a father, pastor, and drum major for social justice. Before we begin, please allow me to offer my condolences to the family as they deal with the aftermath of this tragedy. Today, we’ll take a look at Trayvon’s tragic death through the lens of a father of two teenage sons.
When I think about Trayvon’s death, I think about my two sons, Myles (17) and Joshua (15).You’d have to be a parent (especially sons) to understand that just because you’re free to wear anything, that freedom comes with consequences and responsibilities.Furthermore, living in a racially diverse neighborhood comes with a set of unwritten rules and a certain way of doing things.The rules were there before we moved in and they’ll remain when we’re long gone.
Before my sons leave the house, I give them my standard stump speech:
If you can, please don’t wear hoodies.If you do, take the hood off.
No saggin
Always respect official law enforcement
If anything goes wrong, CALL YOUR PARENTS IMMEDIATELY
Why?
Unfortunately, baggy/saggin jeans, hoodies, doo-rags, & New Era Caps, made popular by the hip-hop culture, are WRONGLY associated with criminal intent.It’s sad and shallow to think that people make snap judgments and reinforce their biases based solely on first impressions.
Again, although my sons are free to wear whatever they want, I teach them to limit their freedom since we live in a racially polarizing world.I know some will push back and label me an assimilationist.I’m fine with that.I’d rather be an assimilationist with my sons alive than burying them for expressing themselves.They’re mine and I’ll do whatever I need to do to protect them.
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