The Biggest Mistake We Don’t Even Know We’re Making

The Biggest Mistake We Don’t Even Know We’re Making

After a long day at the office, sometimes I sit back and watch TV.  Recently, I found myself channel-surfing for about 15 minutes.  I was amazed at how many of the ads were about getting in shape.  Here are some of the exact phrases I heard: 

  • “Six-second abs.” 
  • “Easy shaper.” 
  • “Incredible — a miracle!” 
  • “It feels terrific! Let us show you how easy it is!” 
  • “Quickly turn your flabby abs into that sexy six-pack!” 

Where did we ever get the crazy idea that getting in shape is supposed to be quick and easy?  Why do we think that there will be almost no cost?  Why are we surprised when working out turns out to be hard and healthy foods don’t really taste that good?  It’s because we think easy and simple are synonymous.  Wrong!

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THE MISTAKE WE ALL MAKE:
WE OFTEN CONFUSE THE WORDS “SIMPLE” AND “EASY”

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The Biggest Mistake We Don’t Even Know We’re Making

We Negotiate, We Demonstrate, We Resist | Why You Should Have a Personal Mission Statement

Most churches have mission statements.  Corporations and businesses have mission statements.  Mission statements are meant to infuse an organization with long-term vision and set the tone for all company goals, accomplishments and efforts.  So, what’s a mission statement?

What is a Mission Statement

A mission statement acts as an invisible hand that guides the people in the organization. It explains the organization’s reason for being, and answers the question, “What business are we in?” However, a personal mission statement is different. And there’s a scene from the movie Selma illustrates the power of having a personal mission statement.

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The scene takes place in the social hall of Brown Chapel AME Church in Selma, Alabama.  Two Student Nonviolent Coordinating Committee college students are being taken to task by Southern Christian Leadership Conference leader Reverend C.T. Vivian as Coretta Scott King looks on.  And then a voice from the back of the room speaks. “That’s enough,” reprimands Martin Luther King Jr.  “Enough of this, now.  I don’t have time for this.  None of us got the time for this.  The way our organization works is simple:

We negotiate, we demonstrate, we resist.

We raise white consciousness.  And in particular, the consciousness of whichever white man happens to be sitting in the Oval Office.”

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The Biggest Mistake We Don’t Even Know We’re Making

Here’s The Real Reason Why I Am Online?

Honestly, I do not understand why most pastors and church leaders do not leverage technology for the Glory of God. Pastors, church leaders, and faithful church attendees who see social networking sites like Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, Pinterest, Snapchat, and LinkedIn as evil are missing a great opportunity to reach people far from God.

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Are you sitting?

Here’s something that’ll blow your mind…

Christianity was, in a very real sense, the first technologically driven religion.

Intrigued? Angry? Frustrated?  Read on…

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I Am Because of Him | Happy Birthday Frat!

On Christmas Day, I took my family to see Selma.  It was an entertaining movie, but being a Martin Luther King, Jr. fanatic, I did not recognize many of the speeches presented in the movie.  Why?  In 2009, the King Estate licensed his speeches to DreamWorks and Warner Bros. (along with the rights to his life).

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Because King’s speeches are licensed to another project, Selma’s filmmakers had to find a way to re-create the meaning of MLK’s words without plagiarizing.  That means they had to rewrite MLK’s words.  The film skirts close to MLK’s words without using them.

One of the most memorable scenes occurs when Martin Luther King, Jr., while preaching to the congregation, explains why equal voting rights are crucial.  He rallies them to stand up for their rights and sparks a movement that would change the world.

It is unacceptable that they use their power to keep us voiceless. As long as I am unable to use my constitutional right to vote, I do not have command of my own life. I cannot determine my own destiny. For it is determined for me by people who would rather see me suffer than succeed. Those that have gone before us say, ‘no more! No more!’ That means protest. That means march. That means disturb the peace. That means jail. That means risk. And that is hard. We will not wait any longer. Give us the vote. We’re not asking. We’re demanding. Give us the vote!  Martin Luther King, Jr.

Happy Birthday frat!  You stood tall among giants and I am because of you!

The Biggest Mistake We Don’t Even Know We’re Making

6 Reasons Why You Should Make More Mistakes This Year

Most people don’t take into account how many mistakes account for success. For some there is the idea that if you fail it’s the end: The end of the world, the end of the opportunity, the end to your chances for success. In reality the opposite is true. Mistakes are good for you because mistakes provide the biggest opportunity for growth, learning and development.

mistakes Why Mistakes Can Be Good for You

The only complete mistake is the mistake from which we learn nothing.  Jacob Braude

Of all the great scientific breakthroughs, inventions or discoveries, not one of them achieved success on the first attempt. In fact when Thomas Edison was ridiculed for his more than 200 failed attempts to create a light bulb, his response was not full of self-pity or anger. Instead in his defense, he simply stated that he’d learned more than 200 ways of how not to do it. For Thomas Edison every mistake was a learning opportunity.   How many of us could do the same?

There is a tendency when we make mistakes to get mad at ourselves. We tell ourselves that we should have known better, been more careful or thought it through more. But in reality we will never know it all. Making mistakes is simply part of living. The bible tells us that much: “For we know in part……but when perfection comes, the imperfect disappears.” 1 Cor 13:9,10.

So if in this life it is a certain thing that we will never know it all, how can we expect to not make mistakes? Think about that for a minute. (more…)

Success is a Continuous Journey

Success is a Continuous Journey

Why do so many people reach success and then fail?

“One of the big reasons is, we think success is a one-way street.  So we do everything that leads up to success, but then we get there. We figure we’ve made it, we sit back in our comfort zone, and we actually stop doing everything that made us successful,”  according to Richard St. John.

In this TED talk, Richard St. John reminds us that success is not a one-way street, but a constant journey. He uses the story of his business’ rise and fall to illustrate a valuable lesson — when we stop trying, we fail.  Check it out!

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