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The Top 10 Reasons Why I Love My Wife

by | Feb 14, 2011 | Family, Fun Stuff, Humor, Women | 6 comments

Today is the one of the most important holidays in the Stowers Household: Valentine’s Day.  It’s importance ranks up there with July 2nd (Shauntai’s birthday), June 27th (Our anniversary), December 25th (She loves Christmas – her favorite season), and Mother’s day.

I have a 9-year-old daughter at home and Valentines Day has morphed into a silent, but friendly competition between the two.  My two sons could care less.  On June 27, 2011, Shauntai and I will celebrate 19 years of marriage.  I still make an effort to go all out to make the days that are special to her special to me.  As I grow older, so does my love for my wife.  She’s my best friend, helper, cheerleader, and coach.

Here’s what I love about my wife:

  1. She believes in me more than I sometimes believe in myself.
  2. She’s a true P-31 Woman (Proverbs 31) & is the Chief Operating Officer in the Stowers household.
  3. She’s immaculate & keeps our home clean, organized, and functioning like a well oiled machine.
  4. She listens to me ramble and never cuts me off.
  5. She’s funny & makes me laugh – she has a great sense of humor.
  6. She’s very compassionate & loves deeply.  You gotta love anyone who cries watching Martian Child.
  7. She loves God and is a TRUE WORSHIPER.  While she’s cleaning, she’ll go in listening to Shekinah Glory in a heartbeat.
  8. She encourages me at the right time which makes me feel I can do anything.
  9. She’s extremely serious about her relationship with God and desires to grow spiritually.
  10. FINALLY.  She’s FINE, GORGEOUS, A TRUE DIME-PIECE 😀

Question: Have you told your spouse how much you love them?

6 Comments

  1. Anonymous
    Anonymous on February 15, 2011 at 3:48 AM

    Now this is Making Love Better TwoGether! You guys are a true example of what LOVE looks like!
    There is nothing like having someone love you outloud! You Go Pastor and 1st Lady Shauntai!

    • Clarence E. Stowers, Jr
      Clarence E. Stowers, Jr on February 16, 2011 at 4:01 AM

      Thanks for your encouraging words and I love that statement: “Love Out Loud” – I may steal that and use it as a series title. Wow, I get inspiration from so many people & places. Thanks for sharing!

  2. Chakitaholmes
    Chakitaholmes on February 15, 2011 at 4:10 AM

    Thanks for sharing, Pastor. It’s great to know that black men and women can stay, grow and love together. I look forward to sharing my life with a Godly man who loves God with his whole heart, mind and soul.

    • Clarence E. Stowers, Jr
      Clarence E. Stowers, Jr on February 16, 2011 at 4:01 AM

      Thanks for sharing & yes, there are strong Black men who love & adore their wives. That’s why I’m dedicated to mentoring & training others who desire to walk this path. Thanks for sharing & don’t ever settle for less than God’s best!

  3. Bsanford19
    Bsanford19 on November 16, 2011 at 10:20 PM

    real nice.